Sad

And I saw you, in a tangle of tubes, glistening with ointments and gels, looking away from all the people "doing things" to you.
Mommy?  Your face cried.  I want her!  That warm, soft, loving place I was just forced out of.

I was going to come out, I swear.  I was just building my strength, and preparing my way.

But then, it was decided for me. 

I was scared!  I still am.  I want my mommy!  What happened?  Was I bad?  Why can't you hold me, and tell me it is all ok?  Is my daddy there?  Where are all my voices, the sounds that comforted me?  I feel so alone, and I want my people.  Don't let them take me away!  Mommy!  Where am I going?

Coyote Medicine

I am reading this AMAZING book called Coyote Medicine (thank you mom). I highly recommend you go and buy a copy today.

However I was laying bed between my two smallest babies, waiting for my daughter to fall asleep and reading rapidly through this astoundingly disturbing yet uplifting book, when I came to a part where the intern is concerned that a doctor wants to induce because the mom is "big".
The intern conveys to the doctor that he in fact thought he felt TWO heads when palpating the mama's belly.
The doctor flatly tells him to stop being stupid.

The doctor also says she won't have the baby till noon, and leaves.
The intern hangs, mom starts pushing, sooner then later, and what do they see? FEET.
So the young doc knows the older doctor is not making it for this one most likely, and just frantically hangs onto the info he has learned about breech birth. Mainly is to NOT DO ANYTHING. So he just keeps calming himself and assists the little guy into the world, giving him time, to work his way out. Does not pull, does not yank, does not panic.
Baby does come, breaths fine and what do they see?? Two more feet!
So it was twins, and by this time the old doctor has arrived and is swearing, and freaking out all over the place.

What does he do? YANKS and PULLS and SWEARS, the intern recounts how the babies neck stretched, and how the cervix clamped down like it should and held the babies head there and how the baby turned purple and blue and was not able to work himself the way he needed to.

They knock mama out, ram forceps up her, clamp baby's head, yank him out and resuscitate him.

However, first one born is perfectly healthy, second one has mental issues as well as permanent immature lungs because of the doctor inducing the mom TOO EARLY because to him, she looked "BIG". No complications. Just "BIG".

The other doctors under their breath said why do we "save" them so they can suffer the rest of their life.

The Intern is disgusted.

Upon reading this part of the book I promptly burst into loud insane tears.

I feel for the mom, those babies, the surrounding people who had to witness this act.

The emotion following the tears? ANGER. Intense anger in how we fuck things up, and basically make things worse.

This book on how this man becomes a different kind of healer is pointing me down the path I want to take, I can see it more clearly now. Even through the tears.

Cornmeal for the garden!

 So in my many moves, I misplaced a jar full of organic cornmeal.  I just now found it, old, and bug filled. 

Mmmm.

If you know me, you know that I HATE to waste ANYTHING.

I googled using cornmeal in gardening, as I have started a veggie garden on my balcony.

With great excitement I see that it is in fact used in gardening! 

So for those of you just starting the gardening adventure, a tip for you!

Say yes to cornmeal & dirt!

Cornmeal- It is a source of nitrogen and trace minerals for your garden!

Chunky Granola, the only way I will eat it.

 Chunky Homemade Granola

6 cups old-fashioned oats
1 1/2 cups sunflower seeds
1 1/2 cups slivered almonds (i did not use, still was good)
1 cup spelt flour, or flour of choice
3/4 cup packed brown sugar (i used xylitol)
1 teaspoon salt (i used more like 3-4 tsp)
3/4 cup vegetable oil (i used coconut)
1/2 cup honey (i had some raw agave, but no honey so i used agave)
1/2 cup water
1 bag (7 oz) dried mixed fruit, chopped ( i used some flaked coconut and small diced apple)

1 Heat oven to 300°F. In very large bowl, mix oats, sunflower nuts, almonds, flour, fruit, brown sugar and salt. In small bowl, beat oil, honey and water with wire whisk until well blended. Add liquid ingredients to dry ingredients, stirring until dry ingredients are moistened.
 2 Spread on 2 ungreased large cookie sheets with sides. Place both cookie sheets in oven on 2 separate oven racks, one below the other.
 3 Bake 20 minutes, stirring after 10 minutes. Reverse position of cookie sheets in oven; bake 10 to 20 minutes longer, stirring every 10 minutes, until golden brown. Cool completely on cookie sheets, about 30 minutes.
 4 Stir mixture to break apart. Store in tightly covered container.

It ended up taking twice as long as the directions said, to get baked.  I also ended up adding a bit more oil.

This recipe is VERY tasty.  I will be making more!!  Maybe with some different nuts/fruit and maybe some dark chocolate.

still raw, just not all all the time.

 So I kinda dropped off the blogging face of the earth there for a bit.

I did manage to continue on my raw journey for all the way to the present day, I just have switched it up a bit.  Right now it looks like 50%-75% and not 100%.

We are really into juicing right now, as my eldest is now a keen juicing machine.
The first thing out of his mouth when we get to work is, "can I make anyone a juice?  No?  Can I make myself a really really big one?".

He has been known to wander around the produce area saying things like "mmm, zucchini, rainbow chard, with apples is my favorite juice!!".
Goddess.  I love my kids.
Needless to say, we drink a LOT of juiced veggies right now.